Dating in the modern age

Feeling lonely and depressed in October of 2013, I stumbled onto Match and decided to take a chance and see what would happen. So I paid the requested $200 for a year long membership and even though I knew my odd's were slim, I still thought it might be possible to find someone who could love me. Well here it is March of 2014 a full six months later and so far the results have really been incredibly unimpressive.

I won't blame the website for the obvious, the women who would consider anyone like me for a possible romantic liaison are just extremely rare.

As a rule a female seeks one thing above all others, most don't even realize it but that's just the natural order at work exactly as it was designed to operate. It certainly explains why nearly every woman in my age and cultural bracket already has several children and is now a single mother looking for something long term.They have produced a child and checked off the demand from their biological clock. These women were just easy conquests, just incubators and unaware chattel, they sought out and were bred by what they believed was an alpha male. In reality it was just the best DNA match available at the time and their body made sure that conception was achieved and they had a baby. They were never in love, very few women have the slightest clue what actual love is. It was nothing more than just pure lust and their own basic animal instincts to be bred by what seemed like a superior male. The problem is there are not very many of those around and they are not really interested in any kind of commitment.

In most cases it was simply the closest thing to an alpha male the female came in contact with, and it didn't take him very long to breed her. She was already primed and ready, It's just a biological fact that the very moment she saw him her body would began lubricating and prepared her for breeding. Her only need and want at the time was to be sexually dominated, and to provide offspring for that male. So what if he was a total jackass or a jerk, it didn't matter if he was rude, and who really cared if he lied constantly, and had no interest in her beyond the constant expectation of sex. Once her body got a taste of his DNA she was hooked like a crack whore, the poor woman had absolutely convinced herself by now that she is completely in love with this man's man.

That soon led to a quick courtship and marriage, which consisted mostly of him ignoring her while he looked around for his next conquest to breed. The male had achieved his goal, and she was the eager and willing participant. It really didn't matter that she was completely miserable, being ignored, and all the romance and passion had dissipated, women are just angry bitches anyway right?

The problem now is that she is carrying his next child, so this bad situation may have lasted for years, or ended quickly, but the end result was the same. The female is pregnant again with more of his children and they will always be there, even if she decides to leave and look for someone new.

She will leave eventually, and she will find someone new, that is also another biological imperative. There will always be a long line of males ready and able to breed her at every stage of her life so the only real decision for the female is who will be next in line. She has collected the DNA and produced a child for the first male already, and over time her body will get really tired of his seed just as it's designed to. Once again she will rush into the arms of her new man's man and it wont be long before she is ready to bear a child for him too. Thus the cycle repeats over and over, until the female finally catches on. Very few ever will, but some do eventually, and only then will the female begin to figure out how vast the difference is between love and lust. The truly sad part is by then she will be in her mid 30's or more, with 2 or more children possibly from different males and will discover that there are not many males who want to take on the responsibility of another males child.

So as I sit here a full six months into my dating experience, all I have found is women still looking for lust, they just want the chemistry, that instant attraction, which is there for a very simple purpose, and it certainly isn't real love or connection. Chemistry is there to ensure that she will conceive, it's only purpose is to get her bred and pregnant again. It's why so many of them talk about having it, they don't even realize it's true purpose, and if they do then the last thing they want is an actual companion.

So far I have not found a single woman who is interested in actual love. However there sure are a lot who are more than happy to make the same exact mistakes, while they convince themselves they are in love.